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My three year old and my fourteen month old safely rear facing |
My oldest son, Wesley, is three years old and weighs 35lbs. He is still rear facing along with his little brother, William, who is 14 months old and weighs 18lbs. Both of my children will continue rear facing until they reach the height/weight limits on the car seats. Believe me, I've had friends think I'm crazy and family members think I'm a "mean mom", but I am educated in my decision and this is what is right for our family. Wesley doesn't mind rear facing one bit and has never complained about his legs hurting. It's funny to see him criss-cross them, put them high up in the air, or just perch like a frog. He's young, flexible, and perfectly content with his seating arrangement. I joke to my husband that I want the kids in the best car seats I can find and continue rear facing because I don't trust my own driving, but even if I was a perfect driver I can't protect us from other vehicles on the road. What I can do is keep my children as safe and secure as I can in my vehicle.
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Kicking the seat in excitement after finding out that we were on our way to the ranch |
In the most recent policy statement published in the April 2011 issue of Pediatrics, The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that children should remain rear facing until two years old or until they reach the height and weight limit on the rear facing car seat and the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration recommends that you should keep your 1-3 year old child rear facing as long as possible and should remain in a rear facing car seat until they have reached the height and weight limit. While the AAP just came out with this statement changing the minimum to 2 years old last year, they've always recommended keeping your child rear facing as long as possible and only listed 1 year old and 22lbs as a minimum. Parents looked at the 1 year old and 22lbs as a milestone and were excited to turn their children around and didn't realize that it was a minimum, and turning their child around put them in danger. How can I go so far as to say that it could be putting their children in danger? A 2007 study in the journal, Injury Prevention
found that children under age 2 are around 75 percent less likely to die or to
be severely injured in a crash if they are rear-facing. Crash studies done by the International Consumer Organization, ICRT and ADAC on 13,000 crashes, show that head and neck injuries and death are FIVE TIMES less likely when
using a rear facing car seat. Studies of real life accidents done by Volvo and
insurance companies show that children in rear facing seats are FIVE TIMES safer than those in forward facing seats. Five times? That's life or death.
AAP Recommendations -
http://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/on-the-go/pages/Car-Safety-Seats-Information-for-Families.aspx
NHTSA Recommendations -
http://www.nhtsa.gov/ChildSafety/step2
Injury Prevention study abstract -
http://injuryprevention.bmj.com/content/13/6/398.abstract?sid=91b9bb81-71ab-4468-aa16-dd3fd81cd633
There are a few reasons why rear facing is so much safer for your child. It seems that the main point is that when you are in a frontal crash, the child's body will be thrown forward like a rag doll if sitting in a forward facing car seat. Because the bones that protect the child's spinal cord do not harden until they are between the age of 2-5 years old, this can mean internal decapitation. Frontal and frontal offset crashes combine for about 72% of severe crashes and side impact crashes are about 24%. Rear and
rear offset crashes only account for about 4% and are more common at lower speeds. The odds of being
in a frontal crash with a fatality or very serious injury are many times greater than being in a
severe rear-end crash. We know that frontal and frontal offset crashes are
more frequent and more severe than
rear-end crashes. When rear facing in a frontal crash, the entire shell
of the car seat cradles the child's back, neck and head. The crash
forces are spread throughout the large area of the child's back and
head,
reducing the pressure during the crash, and keeping the head from
snapping
backward with respect to the body. A child's legs and head are not
restrained at all if they are
turned front-facing. In a serious frontal crash with a front-facing
car seat, the head and legs of the child are thrown forward like a rag
doll, and serious forces are put on the child's spinal cord.
Video showing the "rag doll" effect in a forward facing seat and the "cushion" of the rear facing seat -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8mFsXNXOLw
This gives a great visual of weight relation between head and body on children and adults -
http://www.hts.no/uk/safety/whyrearfacing.php
My car seat of choice is the Diono Radian RXT (previously
known as Sunshine Radian) which is usually priced at $339.99 but is
currently on sale for $288.95 on Amazon. The Diono Radian RXT rear faces
until 45lbs, forward faces until 80lbs, and then converts to a booster seat until 120lbs. This is the only car seat you will need all the way from birth until your child outgrows the carseat. While the price may seem like a lot, you're not buying an infant seat, convertible car seat, and then a booster seat. Also, who can put a price on safety? With the steel alloy frame
and aluminum reinforced sides, it's not a light piece of plastic that
you could easily pick up with one finger. This thing is solid and would
protect your child in the event of a collision. -
Diono Radian RXT
Because nobody believes anything until it comes from a mainstream media source -
CNN Article
This is a great resource for reliable information regarding extended rear facing -
http://www.rearfacing.co.uk/facts.php
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He is three years old and has 10lbs left to go until he is forward facing! |